“Healing from victim patterns is like untying a knot; It’s starts with looking at energy imbalances, healing your beliefs, which leads to thoughts that need to be healed, which leads to patterns that need to be addressed, which lead to behaviors that need to be corrected.” -Alexis Serrano … More Taking the Blinders Off Procrastination and Victim Patterns.
I’ve been in the process of healing myself and finding my true authentic voice and identity for 13 years. I’ve been looking back at critical periods in my life that changed me and examining how they changed me,and asking myself the big questions: why did I change ? How did I change? How did … More Faking it; the dangerous consequences of not being your true self in relationships.
Nothing goes away until it teaches us what you need to know-Pema Chodron Some people attract negative circumstances into their lives repeatedly. Abusive friendships, bullying, pushy friendships, bosses, and wonder why it keeps happening to them. I did for years it was horrific until one day I faced the worst bully of them all, several … More A shamanic perspective on the law of attraction; Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Bullies.
I first learned about the law of attraction back in 2003, naturally like most of you, I felt I had discovered the best thing since sliced bread! I mean I hit the jackpot! I was gonna be rich and have the man of my dreams, the house of my dreams, the perfect body, the perfect … More Applying the Law of Attraction; when all you get is ” strange fruit”.